It frustrates me when
people who used to selfharm
start to criticize people
who haven’t yet become
Statements like “I don’t know why I even did it, people who do are so dumb.”
or “It isn’t that hard to get over it.”
You literally where just that person struggling to breathe.
Feeling so alone, and like it would never get better.
So telling people “Oh, it isn’t that hard to get over, not a big deal.” Is like yelling
“Learn to swim”
while someone is drowning.